Who is a soul mate? Is it real or not?

Psychological facts about soulmates

In the recent period, a strange term has spread to some, which is soul mate, and it was previously known to many in the field of psychology as well, as it means a person with whom the other person is comfortable and in harmony spiritually.

It is not required that a twin or soul mate be a relationship between a man and a woman, or between a young man and a girl, but it can be between a mother and her daughter, or a father and his daughter, or friends, where each of them is more comfortable and free with the other, whatever his situation, psychological state, or mood.  or even social and economic.

Who is the soul mate?  A soul mate is:

Someone who does not have to be your biological twin, i.e. the unborn twin with the other twin in the relationship.

And so most of the time it's a stranger, who's somewhere in this world, and you should never look for him because he'll come for his other twin in due time.  

Or divine timing, as they say, but before the meeting stage, the person must be in a state of readiness for this meeting. 

And that is by working on himself, and making his mind and heart in a state of enlightenment, love and compassion to accommodate his twin, and accept and love him no matter what situation he is in.

When a person meets his soul mate, he is in a state of astonishment and amazement at this matter, given that the circumstances of their meeting are completely different or outside the limits of reason and logic.  

And if a person is not enlightened, as we mentioned before, he will not understand that this person is his soul mate, because he will be outside the person’s expectations of others.  

A soulmate is someone who can be talked to without any value, cost, or account of speech, outward appearance, or expecting a certain reaction with him.  

It is as if a person is talking to himself or his soul, but it is in another form and another body, and that is why he is called the companion of the soul.  

It is also said that soulmates do not need to tell in detail every single day everything that happens with them.  

Rather, it is possible that there is a language of understanding and dialogue between them that is superior to languages ​​or words, and some say telepathy.  

Where they understand each other or what is happening with him or what he is going through in terms of joy or sadness without being together in the same place or talking to each other face to face.  

And each of them feels responsible towards the other, and wants to give him financially and morally without waiting for him in return or a return for this giving.  

In addition, the soul mate does not make any effort with the other person to convince him of his point of view on a particular matter, but each of them accepts the other's opinion.  

That is, whether or not this opinion differs with the convictions and beliefs of the other.  

It is an imaginary or irrelevant relationship to the material world in which we currently live, so it is called a spiritual relationship because the spirit is not governed by the laws of logic or reason in the material world.

Real soulmate relationship

Some say that this relationship is a path of imagination or madness, because there are not many people who are in a state of unconditional love and acceptance, whether for themselves or others, and therefore this relationship is very rare, and it is difficult to find or enter into it, and that is due to  : 

Because it does not come with a plan from the person or from the soul mates, but rather each of them finds himself and with the other without his desire or planning.  And they begin to discover themselves with each other during the relationship, and some thinkers say that it is a real relationship.  

But it is difficult for a person to meet his soul mate easily, as they may be in a different place or time.  It is a relationship outside the norms of normal or customary relationships. Rather, it is a more spiritual relationship that does not have specific physical criteria or standards.  

Therefore, a person must go through his life very naturally, and not always seek to meet a soul mate or search for this kind of relationship.  Because as we indicated before, these relationships are at a specific divine timing and at the appropriate time for both parties to the relationship without interference from them.  

And in the event that a person lived and died and did not find his soul mate, this matter is not the end of the world or the end.  Rather, it is important that they meet in another world outside the boundaries of the physical world, as legends say, and as thinkers say about this relationship, that it is a relationship on the level of the soul.  

And the soul never dies, and meets those who are composed in another world that has nothing to do with our physical world.  But there are things that can be done to speed up the process of meeting the twins, which is for the person to work on himself.  

In the sense that he monitors his feelings and thoughts towards everything in this life, and towards God and himself in order to refine and purify himself and become more accepting and loving of himself, God, the entire existence, and his soul mate.